In order to love who you are, you cannot hate the experiences that shaped you 🙌🏼 so no regrets just lessons hopefully learnt but if not that lesson isn't over ;) ..... special post to all of you who keep writing to me about your regrets.. this is for you ❤️ #wordsofwisdom#lifelessons#regrets#loveyourself
We all have regrets in life and I still catch myself fixated on certain ones that I take blame for and wonder how much better things could have been. But like I say about assumptions how do we know it would have been better? Take regrets recognize it and let it go. When I say assumptions and expectations are the root of all problems in human emotions I sincerely believe that. It takes practice to train your mind around this. We will never be perfect. We just need to keep trying and we will get better. If we fail then we just get back up and move on. #regrets#life#zen#meditation#selflove#selfhelp#selfworth#strength#mentalstrength#motivation#emotions#relationshipgoals#headspaceapp
As you are reading this in February 2028, you will be immensely pleased to realise you did take the risk of rooting yourself from your sweet comfort life in Bucharest and moving outside of Romania when the boys will be young men in a college somewhere in the world.
For sure you will have a big smile when you will be glancing over whatever device you are reading this email from the past into the deep blue ocean by which you leave now.
I am sure you feel so proud of yourself for having the crazy guts to go after your wildest dream: to live in house on a beach where you can sip your morning black, strong coffee with feet in the tickling sand, a soft breeze in your hair and a warming sun on your face.
You must sigh in relief because you escaped the agonising quiet pain of regret of 'what if?'. You rock!
You little devil... how did you become so wise? and forget that, how do you look so fit and lean? daily habits you say, huh..? discipline and work out especially when you dont feel like it...? aham, the same thing when it comes to job tasks?
Thank you for comforting me during the hardships of my journey to be where you are now.
In times of disappointment and and tough moments, your stories about how truly fulfilled you are now ... these stories kept me going day in and day out to follow through for this deep longing of my soul.
Yes, you warned me.. there will be times when i will have no idea how to move forward and that will throw me into wining, complaining and quitting temporarily. But also I learned from you to pause, regroup and find ways to break through whatever it is that its getting me stuck. And yeah, you were so right... almost always stuck in my head and what i think rather than outside circumstances.
Thank you for being so lively in my imagination.
Thank you for existing so you can prove that this me from the past is a sane person with goals and purpose, not just a lunatic dreamer who talks by herself. :))
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